Pakistan wedding season heats up in cold
Source: pantagraph.com
KARACHI, Pakistan -- There's a scrum of people trying to get photos with the married couple at the Radiance banquet hall, and you can barely hear someone talk above the din of 400 guests tucking into biryani and chicken tikka, music and the drone whirring around the room. The bejeweled bride and her fashionable groom are beaming.
Outside, the street is jammed with cars heading to wedding parties in neighboring banquet halls.
It's winter in Pakistan, and that means lots of weddings.
During the cooler weather between November and February, millions of people attend weddings every week. Pakistani diaspora come home from around the world for the season, packing airport arrival halls and fivestar hotels.
People call it Decemberistan.
"December is when everybody has an excuse to put a pause on worrying, whatever income level you are," said Karachi-based communications consultant Khizra Munir. "Everyone's on the same page that we're going to live in the moment. It's a great time to have a reunion, a great excuse to dress up."
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Weddings are one of the few opportunities for people in the conservative Muslim country to socialize and party, so it's no surprise that people draw them out a bit.
A typical Pakistani wedding means at least three events, and often more: there's the engagement, the gathering when friends and family ritually apply turmeric paste to the bride's hands and face, another party for applying henna to the bride's hands and feet -- which, of course, means more music and dancing. The bride gets a procession. So does the groom.
In Karachi's Cantonment area, Yamima Teresa Bhagtaney and Sharoon Arjumand John tied the knot at Holy Trinity Cathedral.
Guests thumbed through the order of service, which one Muslim guest in the pews said was "very helpful" for navigating the Christian ceremony.
The wedding had the hallmarks of a traditional Christian wedding -- a white dress, hymns, choristers, an organist, the exchange of vows and rings -- and a traditional Pakistani one, with multiple photographers and videographers capturing every detail.
The groom's father, Bishop of Karachi the Right Rev. Frederick John, said Christian weddings are celebrated the same way as any other wedding in Pakistan, including the mehndi -- when the bride receives henna on her hands and feet -- and a dholki, when guests gather at a family member's house to sing and dance.
Pakistani weddings only seem to be getting more elaborate.
Munir said she went to 10 events for the wedding of one family friend this season, wearing a different outfit each time. She said weddings have become so big and "over the top," it's sometimes hard to build an emotional connection. "It's all about outfits, what you're wearing, who you're wearing, have you posted a picture of your outfit." The latest trend is guests hiring a choreographer to help them perfect a dance performance.
A wedding event in a banquet hall like Radiance can cost upwards of 1 million rupees, or about $3,576 -- a hefty price tag in a country whose annual GDP per capita is just over $1,500 and inflation is running high. A wealthier family could easily spend 10 million to 20 million on one party.
Banks offer loans and other wedding financing of up to 3 million rupees. Welfare institutions, including a Pakistani government one, support people from disadvantaged backgrounds or low-income households to pay for weddings.
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